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Kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kumasulidwa ku izo
Nchiyani chimayambitsa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zifukwa zake ndipo kodi munthu angathe kuzithetsa? Chifukwa chiyani ndi tchimo ndi chilakolako monga umbombo, kuwawidwa mtima ndi maganizo ena olakwika?
M'mizere yotsatirayi, tiwona za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso zochitika zake. Cholinga chake ndi kulingalira makamaka za chiyambi cha kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndiponso ngati munthu angamasulidwe ku uchimo, limodzinso ndi zimene Baibulo limanena pankhaniyi. Ambiri angatsutse, koma ayenera kuwerenga lemba lonse.
ZIMENE ZINACHITIKA ZOKHUDZA KUGWIRITSA NTCHITO AMAKHALA OKHALA NDI ACHINYAMATA. Pofufuza chifukwa cha kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mfundo imodzi yofunika kwambiri ndiyo yakuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndikwachibadwa ndipo palibe chimene chingachitidwe. Zafotokozedwa kuti ena amabadwa ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo amangoyenera kuvomereza kuti ndi ndani. Komabe, pophunzira za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kwakhala kosatheka kupeza chifukwa chimodzi chobadwa nacho. Palibe jini kapena cholowa china chomwe chapezeka chomwe chingayambitse kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Zomwe zapezeka mderali palibe. M'malo mwake, zinthu zina zakumbuyo ndi mawonekedwe apadera, zomwe zalembedwa pansipa, zikuwoneka kuti ndizofunikira kwambiri. Zinthu izi zapezeka mobwerezabwereza mu maphunziro angapo ndi zoyankhulana zomwe zachitika. Ambiri a iwo ndi okhudzana ndi maubwenzi. Tidzawayang'ana motsatira:
KUGWIRA NTCHITO AMATI
Kukanidwa ndi bambo ake . Mwinanso chomwe chimayambitsa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndikusowa kwa chitsanzo cha bambo wachikondi komanso wachikondi. Ngati atate wa munthu wakhala wokwiya, wosalabadira, ndi waudani, izi zingachititse mnyamatayo kapena mwamunayo kuyamba kufunafuna chivomerezo cha amuna, chifukwa chakuti sanachipeze kwa atate wake. Chifukwa chake, kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndiko kulakalaka kwa abambo (mwa akazi, motsatana, amayi) mwa amuna. Ngati mwamuna wakhala ndi chitsanzo chabwino cha atate, mwanjira ina angalepheretse kukula kwa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Jerry Arterburn, yemwe kale anali wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amalankhula za izi:
Thandizo lowonjezera ndi kuvomereza koperekedwa kwa mwana kungakhale kokwanira. Ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ambiri anena kuti kwenikweni ankalakalaka kuvomerezedwa ndi amuna. Makolo awo akanakhala kuti anasintha maganizo awo n’kumaganizira kwambiri za ana awo, moyo wawo wonse ukanakhala wabwino. (1)
Amuna ena. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri monga kukanidwa kwa atate ndicho kukanidwanso ndi amuna ena ofunika, monga achimwene ndi anzake akusukulu. Kukana kumeneku kungathe kulepheretsa mnyamata kapena mwamuna wa chitsanzo chofunikira chodziwika ndi jenda lake ndikumupatula kwa icho. Amuna ambiri atengeka ndi maubwenzi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chifukwa apeza chivomerezo ndi mgwirizano wa mabwenzi aamuna omwe sanakumane nawo. Jerry Arterburn wanena momwe izi zidamukhudzira kwambiri:
Sindinasinthe kukhala gay wamagazi usiku wonse. Kusinthaku kunachitika pang'onopang'ono kotero kuti sindinazindikire nthawi yomweyo. Poyamba ndinkangoganiza kuti ndikupanga ubwenzi ndi anzanga atsopanowa. Ndinasangalala ndi anzanga atsopano. Iwo ankaoneka kuti akumvetsa zimene ndinakumana nazo ndili mwana. (…) Ndinkafuna kudziwa ngati kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kunali chifukwa chomwe ndimamvera. Ndinasiya chibwenzi ndi atsikana ndipo ndinayamba kuthera nthawi yanga ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe ndinkawadziwa ku yunivesite. Ndinakwanira bwino m’gululi, ndipo anyamatawo ananditenga pansi pa mapiko awo ngati abale. Ndinkaona kuti ndine wogwirizana kwambiri moti ndinalibe ngakhale ndili ndi abale anga. Kudzimva kukhala wolandiridwa kunali kozizwitsa. Zinandiyesa kudziko logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuposa china chilichonse. (2)
Andrew Comiskey adanenanso za momwe adayamba kulakalaka kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chifukwa adatalikirana ndi abwenzi ake achimuna amsinkhu womwewo. Ichi chinali chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zokhumbira kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha:
Mbali yaikulu ya kukula kwanga koyambirira kwa kugonana, kudzipatula ku umuna wanga kungawonedwe. Ndinadziona kuti ndine wosakwanira komanso wosayenera udindo wa mwamuna. Zinali makamaka chifukwa cha kutalikirana kwamalingaliro kwanga ndi abambo anga, zomwe zinali chifukwa cha zomwe ndikuyembekezera komanso malingaliro olakwika monga momwe zinalili ndi zophophonya za abambo anga. Kutalikirana ndi abambo anga kunatsimikiziridwa ndi kukanidwa kosalekeza kwa anzanga achimuna omwe adayamba kale kusukulu ya pulaimale ndikupitilira kutha msinkhu. Chifukwa chakuti ndinali kutali ndi bambo anga ndi anzanga achimuna, ndinayamba kulakalaka kwambiri kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Sindinamvetse mmene ndimapwetekera ndi kuweruza amuna. Komanso sindinkamvetsa kuti zinali zovuta bwanji kuti ndithane ndi vuto langa lachimuna. (3)
Chikoka cha amayi. Amayi atha kukhalanso ndi gawo pakuyambika kwa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ngati alekanitsa anawo ndi atate wawo, kumangiriza mwana kwambiri kwa iyemwini m’malo mwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wake, ndi kutenga mwana wake wamwamuna monga woulula zake zakukhosi, zingabweretse mavuto aakulu. Kukoma mtima kwa mayi kungapangitse mwanayo kusokonezeka maganizo, ndipo pamene mnyamatayo waikidwa kukhala munthu woulula zinsinsi zake, zimakhala zovuta kuti adziŵe kuti iye ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wake. Akhoza kutengera chitsanzo cha amayi ake m’malo mwa bambo ake. Leanne Payne adalongosola izi:
Ngati mwanayo alibe tate wamphamvu ndi wochirikiza, mayi wotetezera kwambiri amene amasunga mwana wake movulaza angachititse mwana wake kukhala ndi vuto la kulekanitsa umunthu wake wakugonana ndi wa amayi ake, ndipo mayi angalimbikitse khalidwe la kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha mwa iye. mwana. (4)
Chitsanzo chachiwiri chotheka ndi mayi wolamulira komanso wolamulira akudzudzula mwamuna wake pamaso pa ana. Mayi akhoza kukhala aukali kwambiri ndi kunyoza mwamuna wake, kuwononga kwambiri chithunzi cha mwana wa bambo ake. Zingayambitsenso mwanayo kukhala ndi zovuta pambuyo pake pokhulupirira akazi, chifukwa amayi ake am'patsa chitsanzo cholamulira ndi cholamula. Mbiri yamtunduwu idafotokozedwa ndi Andrew Comiskey:
Nthaŵi ndi nthaŵi ndakhala ndikuwona mmene anthu ameneŵa amalephera kukhala ndi zibwenzi zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chifukwa amaona kuti kholo linalake linadyera masuku pamutu kholo lina. Mwamuna wina amene ankafuna chithandizo sankadalira akazi ngakhale pang’ono chifukwa mayi ake ankachita zinthu mopondereza mwamuna wake amene ankangokhalira kumuchitira chipongwe. (5)
Maganizo oipa a makolo pa nkhani ya kugonana. Chinthu chimodzi chimene chimayambitsa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chingakhale maganizo oipa a makolo pankhani ya kugonana. Makolo, mwachitsanzo, angalange mwana wawo mopanda nzeru chifukwa chosonyeza thupi lake pamene akuseŵera ndi ana ena. Izi zitha kupangitsa kukana kugonana kwathunthu. Nthawi zina makolo akamakhumudwa kwambiri ndi zinthu zina, akhoza kungowononga. Mlanduwo ungakhalenso atate amene amanyoza chidwi chodzutsa cha mwana wake kwa atsikana, pamene mwanayo angamvetse molakwa ngati chinthu chosayenera, chodetsedwa, ndi chachilendo (pangakhale zinthu zina zosonkhezera kuseri kwa ichinso). Mwanayo pambuyo pake angatembenukire kwa iyemwini kuti akhale ndi chivomerezo cha kugonana. David ndi Don Wilkerson afotokoza zimenezi m’buku lawo lakuti The Untapped Generation:
Ana amene amachenjezedwa nthawi zonse za kuopsa kwa maubwenzi ogonana amayamba kuwaona ngati otopetsa komanso auve. Mwanayo amatanthauzira malingaliro ake achibadwidwe akugonana paubwana wake kukhala wachilendo ndipo angadzimve kukhala wolakwa chifukwa cha izo. Mwanayo mwina waphunzitsidwa kuopa anthu amene si amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Makolo amene ali ndi vuto la kugonana kaŵirikaŵiri amaonetsa ana awo malingaliro ameneŵa mozindikira kapena mosadziŵa. Makolo amene amalera ana awo ndi maganizo abwino pankhani ya kugonana sayenera kuopa kuti mwana wawo ayamba kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha; nzotheka kuti mwanayo adzakula bwinobwino. Nyumba yodzaza ndi malingaliro abwino pankhani ya kugonana iyenera kudzazidwa ndi zizindikiro zomwe mwanayo angaganize mwachibadwa kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikwachilendo komanso koyenera, komanso kopindulitsa komanso kosangalatsa. Makolo ogonana bwino mwachibadwa amadziwa kulimbikitsa umuna mwa anyamata ndi ukazi mwa atsikana. (…)
Zofuna zolakwika. Chinthu china chimene chimayambitsa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chikhoza kukhala makolo kukhumudwa chifukwa chopeza mnyamata m'malo mwa mtsikana, ndikuyesera kukakamiza mwana wawo kuti alowe m'malo a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mwachitsanzo, kuvala mnyamata zovala za mtsikana. Leanne Payne akupereka chitsanzo chabwino cha izi:
Loren, bambo wokongola, wokongola wazaka makumi anayi zakubadwa, anali atagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuyambira ali mwana. Izi zidayambitsa mikangano yayikulu pakati pa iye ndi abambo ake, komanso mavuto mu ubale wake wina. Iye sanadzivomereze yekha, koma anateteza khalidwe lake mwachidwi pamene akukangana ndi abambo ake. Anamvetsetsa kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumaphatikizapo kukwiyira ndi kupandukira abambo ake, koma sanathe kulimbana ndi izi. Munthu uyu adapezadi Khristu ndi chipulumutso, koma nthawi zambiri adalephera pankhondo yolimbana ndi chizolowezi chake chogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mpaka Mulungu adawonetsa zokumbukira zake zoyambirira. Izi zidachitika pomwe tidapempha Ambuye kuti apeze kukumbukira komwe kungavumbulutse zomwe zidayambitsa vutoli. M’pempheroli, anakumbukira zimene zinachitika pamene anali atangobadwa kumene. Anaona bambo ake akubwera kuchipinda komwe anabadwira kumene. Kukhumudwa kudadzadza mchipindamo mwachangu ndikumulemera kwambiri. Bambo ake anamuyang’ana monyansidwa n’kunena kuti: “Mwanawenso! Kenako anatembenuka ndikuthamangira m'chipindamo. Loren anali mwana wawo wamwamuna wachitatu, omwe ankayembekezera mtsikana. Loren "anawona" zonsezi ndipo anakumana nazonso - ndipo nthawi ino, anazimvetsa mwanzeru komanso mwamaganizo. Chifukwa chimene Loren anayesera kuti akhale mtsikana pambuyo pake, zomwe zinadabwitsa kwambiri banjali.Iye ankafuna kusewera ndi zidole ndi atsikana, osati anyamata.
Kuchitiridwa nkhanza ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzathu kungayambitsenso khalidwe logonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Jerry Arterburn akufotokoza mmene anachitiridwa nkhanza zogonana, zomwe zinali chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zinamupangitsa kuti apite njira yolakwika. Ananenanso kuti ndi angati mwa anzake omwe amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe ali ndi makolo ofanana. Mawu enanso ochokera m’buku la mlaliki wa ku Argentina Carlos Annacondia akunena za nkhani imodzimodziyo:
Chotulukapo cha madzulo amenewo chinali chakuti malingaliro anga anadodometsedwa. Ndinachitidwa zachipongwe. Kwa ine, chimenecho chinali chiyambi chenicheni cha mapeto. (…) Kulimbana kwanga komwe kunatenga zaka makumi atatu kumafanana ndi anthu ambiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ndakumanapo ndi anthu angapo ngati ine, amene akopeka ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chifukwa chakuti anyamata akuluakulu kapena amuna akuluakulu amawachitira nkhanza. Chodabwitsa n’chakuti, chokumana nacho changa choyamba chinandipatsa chisamaliro cha amuna chimene ndinachilakalaka. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, zinasokoneza chitetezo changa chofooka kale komanso kudzidalira. (7)
Anthu ambiri amene Mulungu wawamasula ku kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amatiuza kuti anagwiriridwa kapena kuchitidwa zachipongwe paubwana wawo. Kaŵirikaŵiri mawu onga akuti “Ndiwe wachikazi,” amene makolowo amanena, ndipo motero amapweteka mwana, angafooketse kamnyamata. Koma Yesu atabwera m’moyo wawo, mzimu woipawo uyenera kuchoka ndipo amamasulidwa. Ndikukutsimikizirani kuti palibe chithandizo china chofunikira. (8)
KUGWIRA NTCHITO KWA AZIMAYI . Ngakhale kuti chiyambi cha kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nthawi zambiri chimakhala ubale woipa wa abambo, akazi amakhala ndi mavuto ndi ubale wa amayi awo. Ndicho chifukwa chofala kwambiri cha kugonana kwa akazi. Leanne Payne adawona kuti ichi ndiye chifukwa chodziwika bwino cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha:
Tsopano ndidamvetsetsa kukhudzika kwamalingaliro komwe kunapangitsa Lisa kukhala wokhudzidwa kwambiri komanso kudapangitsa kuti ayambe kukondana ndi aphunzitsi ake ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Makhalidwe ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (kupatula ngati ndi funso la umunthu wonyansa) monga chisokonezo cha kugonana sichovuta kwambiri monga kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Malinga ndi zomwe ndakumana nazo, kaŵirikaŵiri zimayamba chifukwa cha kufunika kokwera m’miyendo ya mayiyo, zomwe sizinakwaniritsidwe nkomwe kapena zosakwanira paubwana wake. (9)
Erik Ewalds adanenanso zomwezo za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Iye analemba m’buku lake ( Tahdotko tulla terveeksi , p. 94):
Pochiza amuna amene amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, ndaona kuti chifukwa chimodzi chimene chimawachititsa kuti azikhala ndi maganizo amenewa n’chakuti analibe bambo amene ankafanana naye ali ana. Sanalandire thandizo lililonse lopeza jenda kapena kudzikonda komwe kukanawamasula. Kwa nthawi yaitali, ndakhala ndikufufuzanso chimene chimachititsa kuti akazi azigonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Chifukwa chimodzi n'chakuti mayiyo sanali chitsanzo chabwino. Kenako mtsikanayo anapita kukapikisana ndi amuna. Choncho amayesa kudzipezera ulemu popikisana ndi amuna. Sindikunena kuti ichi ndi chifukwa chokhacho chomwe chimachitikira akazi omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha koma pali milandu yotereyi, azimayi omwe ndidalankhula nawo komanso omwe ndakhala ndi mwayi wowathandiza kupeza okha.
• Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zimachititsa kuti akazi azigonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi mantha ndi chidani chomwe mkazi amakhala nacho kwa abambo ake ndi amuna ena chifukwa achita zinthu mopanda chikondi kwa iye. Komanso, ngati wagwiriridwapo ndi amuna, zitha kukulitsa mantha ake ndi chidani kwa amuna. M’chilakolako chake cha chikondi, iye angatembenukire kwa chiŵalo cha chigololo chake.
• Ngati makolo akufuna kuti akhale ndi mnyamata m'malo mwa mtsikana ndipo mosadziwa amayesa kukakamiza mtsikanayo kuti akhale mnyamata, ndiye kuti ndi vuto. Izi ndizomwe zimachitikanso chifukwa chogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
ZOCHITIKA PA MAVUTO . Zomwe zimayambitsa kubadwa kwa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosakondweretsa, zomwe zatchulidwa pamwambapa. Komabe, ziyenera kunenedwa kuti ngakhale kuti anthu ambiri ali ndi mikhalidwe yofananayo, sizinawapangitse kukhala ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Iwo atha kuvutika ndi zinthu zofanana komabe sanatengere moyo wofananawo. Zimene timachita pa moyo wathu n’zofunika kwambiri. Chitsanzo chabwino nchakuti ngakhale kuti mahule ndi zigawenga kaŵirikaŵiri zimachokera m’nyumba zamitundu ina, anthu ambiri amikhalidwe yofananayo sanakhale mahule kapena apandu. Zimasonyeza kuti aliyense akhoza kukhudza zosankha zake. Alan Medinger, yemwe kale anali wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, akufotokoza zambiri za nkhaniyi. Iye akutchula kuti si mikhalidwe yomwe idayambitsa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma momwe iye adachitira ndi mikhalidweyo. Nkhani yake ndi yowonadi kwa anthu ena ambiri omwe tsopano akuchita zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha:
Mungapeze kuchokera m’mbuyomo pafupifupi zochitika zonse zimene kaŵirikaŵiri zimaganiziridwa kuti zimatsogolera ku kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha: Sindinali mwana wofunidwa, makolo anga ankayembekezera mwana wamkazi, ndinali ndi mchimwene wanga wamkulu amene anakwaniritsa bwino ziyembekezo za atate athu, ndipo anali kuyembekezera mwana wamkazi. bambo amene anali ndi mavuto aakulu m'moyo wake. Iye sakanatha kulamulira moyo wake, osatchulapo za kukhala tate weniweni wa ana ake. Ndikudziwa kuti izi sizinapangitse kugonana kwanga kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. M’malomwake, zimene ndinachitazi zinandipangitsa kuti ndizichita zimenezi. (10)
KODI KUSINTHA Nkotheka? Monga tanenera, kaŵirikaŵiri khalidwe la kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha lakhala loyenerera chifukwa cha lingaliro lakuti chibadwa ndi chakuti kusintha sikungatheke. Ngakhale mtundu wolakwika wachisoni wasonyezedwa ndipo anati, "Inu munabadwa chonchi; muyenera kungovomereza gawo lanu." Awa ndi malingaliro ofala omwe amabwerezedwa mobwerezabwereza. Koma monga taonera kale, kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikubadwa, koma ndi nkhani ya mikhalidwe ndi zosankha za munthu. Ngati chikanakhala choloŵa, mwachitsanzo, mwa ana atatu, aliyense, osati mmodzi, akanakhala ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Komabe, nthaŵi zambiri zimenezi sizichitika, ndipo nkhaniyo ingakhale ya m’bale mmodzi yekha. Momwemonso, ngati ndi choloŵa, makolo ndi agogo nawonso ayenera kukhala ndi malingaliro ofanana. Komabe, sizinali choncho. Zimasonyeza kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha si nkhani ya choloŵa kapena chibadwa. Nanga bwanji kukumana ndi kusintha? N’zothekadi, ngakhale kuti ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha anganene kuti sangasinthe kapena sadzasintha. Komabe, Mulungu, amene analenga mwamuna ndi mkazi, akhoza kuchiritsa munthu wosweka, chifukwa ndi zimenenso zikunena. Angathe kuchiritsa munthu amene wasweka ndi kukonzanso zimene zawonongeka kwa zaka zambiri. Munthu ayenera kupereka moyo wake choyamba kwa Mulungu. Chitsanzo chabwino cha mmene Mulungu amagwirira ntchito chikuoneka pa Akor. 6. M’ndime iyi, zikulongosoledwa mmene ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sadzalowa mu ufumu wa Mulungu, koma Paulo akuwonjezera kuti, “Ndipo ena mwa inu munali otere; Izi zikusonyeza kuti ena mwa anthuwa anali ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha koma sanalinso. Paulo analemba kuti:
( 1 Akor. 6:9, 11 ) Kodi simukudziwa kuti osalungama sadzalandira ufumu wa Mulungu? Musanyengedwe; adama, kapena opembedza mafano, kapena achigololo, kapena akudziipsa ndi amuna ; 10 Kapena mbala, kapena osirira, kapena oledzera, kapena olalatira, kapena olanda, sadzalowa Ufumu wa Mulungu. 11 Ndipo ena a inu mudali wotere : koma mudasambitsidwa, koma mudayeretsedwa, koma mudayesedwa wolungama, m’dzina la Ambuye Yesu Khristu, ndi mwa Mzimu wa Mulungu wathu.
Alan Medinger adanenanso za kusintha kwake. Kutulutsidwa kwake kunachitika mwadzidzidzi, zomwe sizimachitika nthawi zonse kwa aliyense:
Tsiku lotsatira ndi masiku pambuyo pake ndinazindikira kuti zozizwitsa zambiri zachitika. Malingaliro ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe ndinali nawo tsiku lililonse m’zaka 25 zapitazo anazimiririka. Ndidakumana ndi chikondi chotere kwa Willa, kotero kuti sindimaganiza kuti zingatheke. Ndipo chomwe mwina chili chofunikira kwambiri, Mulungu sanalinso woweruza wakutali kwa ine, koma adakhala Mpulumutsi wanga. Yesu ankandikonda, ndipo ine ndinkamukonda kwambiri. Aka kanali koyamba kumvetsa tanthauzo la chikondi ndi kukondedwa. (…) Chifukwa machiritso ochokera ku kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha anachitika mwadzidzidzi, nthawi zambiri ndimafunsidwa momwe kuchiritsako kuliri kwangwiro. Ndingayankhe mwa kunena kuti nthaŵi ili umboni wa kuwona mtima kwake ndi kuti ukwati wodalitsika ndiwo chipatso chake. Kwa zaka khumi zapitazi, sindinakumanepo ndi mayesero alionse ogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ndi mayesero ndikutanthauza kuti ndikanalingalira mozama kapena kukhumba kugonana ndi amuna. Komabe, nditatha kuchiritsa koyambirira ndinaphonya mwanjira ina munthu wamkulu, wamphamvu m'moyo wanga. Ndiponso izi zapita tsopano, ndipo ndimaona amuna ngati abale anga, osati ngati atate kapena onditeteza. (11)
Tiyeni tiwone mawu ena okhudzana ndi mutuwo. Limanena za mkazi transsexual amene anakhala zaka 37 mu udindo wa mwamuna (Mutu wa kulemba ndi: 37 zaka mu udindo wa mwamuna: Mulungu anabwezeretsa kudziwika wanga). Iye ankachita ngati mwamuna, ankavala ngati mwamuna ndipo ankagwiritsa ntchito dzina lachimuna. Iye anapondereza chirichonse chachikazi mwa iye yekha ndipo ochepa ankadziwa kuti iye analidi mkazi. Chifukwa cha khalidwe lake chinali makamaka mikhalidwe ya ubwana wake ndi moyo wake, zomwe ndizofala kwa anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso olumala. Makolo ake ankafuna mnyamata m’malo mwa mtsikana, ndipo anaona kuti amasangalatsa makolo ake ngati mnyamata. Komabe, kumasulidwa ndi kuchira kunayamba pamene anapereka moyo wake kwa Mulungu:
… - Ndine wochokera ku Netherlands. Bambo anga anali Mtaliyana ndipo mayi anga anali Mromani wa ku Netherlands. Banja langa linali losweka kwambiri. Ndinafunika kulimbana ndi zigawenga za ku Rotterdam ndili mnyamata. Ndili ndi zaka khumi ndi zinayi, ndinalamulidwa kukhala m’ndende zaka zitatu ndi theka, La Serpe ikutero. Chifukwa cha mavuto kunyumba, mtsikanayo anakhala zaka zingapo ubwana wake ndi agogo ake ku Italy. Makolo ake ankayembekezera kuti mwana wawo woyamba adzakhala mnyamata. Mtsikanayo adazindikira ali wamng'ono kuti amakondweretsa makolo ake ndipo amayendetsa bwino m'misewu ali mnyamata. Zovala, zodzikongoletsera ndi zodzikongoletsera sizinali zake. Luisa adaletsa zinthu zonse zachikazi mwa iye yekha ndipo adadzitcha dzina lachimuna Loid. Ndi owerengeka okha omwe ankamudziwa kugonana kwake koyenera chifukwa ankameta tsitsi lake, ankagwiritsa ntchito zovala zachimuna komanso kuchita zinthu ngati amuna ena. (...) Umu ndi m'mene kusintha kwa Luisa kuchoka kukhala wogulitsa mankhwala osokoneza bongo kukhala mlaliki kunayambira. Ukazi unayamba kukhala wofanana pamene anayamba kuchira kuchokera ku mabala ake amkati, omwe zochitika zokanidwa zaubwana wake zinali zazikulu kwambiri. Komabe, panapita zaka zingapo kuti ayese kusiyiratu dzina lake lachimuna n'cholinga choti asamalidwe ndi Mulungu. (...) Mulungu adatsimikizira kuti akudziwa momwe Luisa amachitira. Analonjeza kuti adzachiritsa mabala amtima wake ngati Luisa angobwerera kwa Iye. - Usiku umenewo, Mzimu Woyera anadza nandisamalira. Ndinayenera kuchiritsidwa bwino mabala anga amkati ndi kukhala m'manja mwake ngati mwana. Ndinalapa kuti ndinakhala m’malo a mwamuna kufikira zaka 37. Pamenepo m’pamene ndinayerekeza kusiya chizindikiritso changa chachimuna kotheratu kwa Mulungu ndi kuvomereza ukazi wanga. Mkazi wamtali, wokongola amasweka ndi malingaliro nthawi zambiri akakumbukira masiku akale. Ulendowu sunakhale wophweka koma lero ali wokondwa. Luisa ali ndi mikangano yosangalala pamene akuyembekezera kuona zomwe Mulungu wamukonzera. Atachira, Luisa anabwerera ku ntchito ya m’tauni pakati pa anthu omvetsa chisoni kwambiri a Fortaleza ku Brazil. Akuwonetsa zithunzi zomwe amajambula ndi wansembe wopulumutsidwa, yemwe kale anali wansembe wa Macumba kapena akupemphera ndi mayi akulira yemwe m'mimba mwake muli zilonda chifukwa cha matenda a shuga osachiritsidwa. - Umphawi, matenda, umbanda ndi uhule ndizochitika zatsiku ndi tsiku m'malo osanja. Nthaŵi zina ndinkathaŵa pamodzi ndi anzanga achigawenga okhala ndi mipeni yakutchire. Komabe ntchitoyo inali yofunika, Luisa La Serpe akusangalala. (12) Ubale wa anthu ndi wofunikira pa machiritso ndi kusintha, kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso anthu ena. Ambiri amakhala ndi zokumana nazo zokanidwa m'mbuyomu, pomwe adakanidwa ndi mwachitsanzo abambo, amayi, aphunzitsi kapena anzawo akusukulu. (Pulogalamu ina ya pawailesi inanena za mmene achinyamata 50 pa 100 alionse ogonana ndi amuna anzawo anakonzeratu kudzipha, zomwe zimasonyeza kuti moyo unali wovuta kwambiri. Kwa ena, chiwerengerocho chinali chocheperapo kambirimbiri.) Chifukwa cha zimene anakumana nazo, n’kovuta kuti adzivomereze okha ndi kudzivomereza okha. -chithunzi ndi negative. Akhoza kudzida okha, kutsutsa maonekedwe awo ndi maonekedwe awo, komanso kukhala okayikira anthu ena. Izi ndi zotsatira zabwinobwino za kukanidwa ndi kukanidwa m'mbuyomu. Kodi munthu angadzimasulire bwanji ku zinthu zoipa zimene zinam’chitikira m’mbuyomo ndi kudziona ngati wopanda pake? Njira imodzi ndiyo kuchita kwachindunji kwa Mulungu ndi kukhudza kwake: akhoza kutikhudza m’kamphindi kuti tichiritse ku zowawa zakale; savutikanso maganizo athu. Iye akhoza kuchita mu mphindi zochepa zimene zikanafuna njira ya zaka. Njira ina yochiritsira ndiyo kukhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi anthu. Pamene munthu akuyembekezera kukanidwa koma alandira kulandiridwa, zingam’thandize kuchiza ndi kukhala ndi chithunzi chabwino cha iye mwini. Izi zikugwira ntchito kwa anthu onse, onse omwe amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso anthu ena. Tiyeni tiwone mawu omwe munthu wina wakale wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amalankhula za momwe maubwenzi abwino adamuthandizira kudzivomereza:
Ndinayamba gawo latsopano m’moyo wanga pamene ndinali wokhutiritsidwa mowonjezereka monga wokhulupirira wachinyamata kuti Mulungu akhoza kundimasula ku chigololo changa cha kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo amandiitana kuti ndimasulire ena m’dzina lake. Chofunika kwambiri pa zonsezi chinali kusintha masukulu anga: Ndinachoka ku yunivesite yanga yakale kupita ku yunivesite ya California ku Los Angeles (UCLA). Ndinasamukira ku nyumba ya amuna achikristu, zomwe zinali zovuta komanso dalitso kwa ine mofanana. Ndinakakamizika kuyang'anizana ndi mantha anga ndi tsankho la amuna - makamaka amuna omwe amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kusamvetsetsana kwanga kwakale kunakwera pamwamba. Amuna awa ankayimira miyambo ndi zikhulupiriro, mtundu wa chikhalidwe chomwe chinandikana ine ndi chimene ine mwachibadwa ndinapandukira. (...) Ndinaphunzira chinachake chachikulu ndi chosayembekezereka m'chaka changa choyamba kumeneko: amuna onsewa ankandikonda. Ngakhale zizindikiro zonse zosonyeza chikhalidwe changa chosagwirizana ndi chikhalidwe changa (tsitsi lalitali, lilime lakuthwa, nthabwala zoipa), zinatulutsa zabwino mwa ine ndikundidalitsadi. Chikondi chawo chinali chovuta nthawi zina. Mmodzi wa iwo nthawi ina anandiuza kuti ndilape kunyada kwanga ndi khalidwe lapamwamba (njira yanga yochimwa yodzitetezera ku kukanidwa). Koma abale anga ambiri anasonyeza chikondi chawo pondipempherera ndi kundilimbikitsa kuti ndikule mwa Ambuye. Ndinadabwa kwambiri nditakumana ndi amuna athunthu otere omwe ankakonda amuna anzawo momasuka, ngakhale mwachikondi, popanda zolinga zilizonse zodzutsa chilakolako. Mkhalidwe wanga kwa iwo nthawi zina udali wosungidwa koma ndidakondwera ndi chitsimikizo chachimuna chomwe amandipatsa. Nditadzimva kukhala wotetezeka, ndinatsegula kuti ndiuze mmodzi wa anyamata m'nyumba za ine ndekha, ndikudziika pachiwopsezo chokanidwa, zomwe zinandipangitsa kukhala ndi machiritso amkati omwe ndinali ndisanakhalepo nawo. Ndinali mmodzi wa iwo ndipo ndinkakonda. Ndinazindikira kuti ndinatha kusangalala ndi chikondi chenicheni ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha monga momwe Mulungu amafunira. Yesu anandipatsa kulimba mtima pa nthawi imene ndinali ndi amuna amenewa. Anandithandiza pondilola kutsamira pa Iye ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mphatso zimene wandipatsa. Kwa nthaŵi yoyamba m’moyo wanga, ena anandiuza kuti ndikhoza kukhala ndi mphatso monga wokamba nkhani ndi phungu. Ndinayamba kudziona kuti ndine wantchito wamphamvu mu Ufumu wa Mulungu, m’malo mokhala “wochira” wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ndinasangalala ndi moyo ndipo ndinadzimva kuti ndine wamtengo wapatali chifukwa cha chikondi Chake ndi cholinga Chake. Ndinadzimva kuti ndikukhala ndi dongosolo lalikulu la Mulungu mokwanira, kufunafuna Mulungu ndi kusangalala ndi chisamaliro chake. Chisamaliro chake chinali chomveka bwino komanso mosalekeza m'miyezi khumi ndi isanu ndi itatu yomwe ndimakhala m'nyumba. (13)
"NDILI NDI ZOCHITIKA IZI". Tikamaona ngati kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kwabadwa, anthu ambiri angatsutse ponena kuti ali ndi chizoloŵezi chimenechi ndipo sangachite kalikonse pa izo (tinaona kale kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikubadwa). Anganenenso kuti chizoloŵezi chawo sichingakhale cholakwika. Komabe, mfundo yakuti munthu ali ndi chizoloŵezi, monga kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, si yachilendo. Ena angakhale ndi chizoloŵezi chokonda kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa, kusuta, kupsa mtima, kugonana kunja kwa banja, kuonera zolaula, kapena zinthu zina. Izinso ndi zizolowezi. Kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikusiyana kwambiri ndi zinthu zakale. Komabe, popeza kuti tili ndi chizoloŵezi chinachake, kaya ndi chachibadwa kapena ayi, sichimangotipanga kukhala mikhole ya mikhalidwe. Tingathe, pamlingo wakutiwakuti, kusankha mmene mtima wathu umatitsogolera. Choncho, munthu amene ali ndi chizoloŵezi chogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha akhoza kusankha kugonana ndi munthu mmodzi kapena angapo. Mofananamo, wokwatilana angasankhe kukhalabe wokhulupilika kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wake, ngakhale atakhala ndi ciyeso coyamba kukondana ndi munthu wina amene si mwamuna kapena mkazi wake. Mofananamo, wokonda chakudya angachepetse chilakolako chake kumlingo wakutiwakuti, monga momwe wosuta angasankhire nthaŵi imene aikire ndudu m’kamwa mwake. Funso ndilakuti ngati timalola kuti zizolowezi zathu zoipa zilamulire miyoyo yathu. Paulo analemba kuti:
( Aroma 6:12 ) Chifukwa chake musalole uchimo uchite ufumu m’thupi lanu la imfa kumvera zilakolako zake.
Thandizo la Mulungu pogonjetsa zizoloŵezi . Ndime yapitayi inanena za zizolowezi ndi kuzigonjetsa. Kuonjezela apo, n’kutheka kuti munthu amatengeka ndi zinthu zimenezi. Mwina ndinu mtundu wa munthu amene wakhala akuvutika ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena kudalira zinthu zina koma sanathe kuzithetsa. Mfundo yakuti muli ndi chizoloŵezi choterocho ndi chizindikiro chakuti muli m’gulu linalake la anthu. Ndinu, malinga ndi Baibulo, kapolo wa uchimo monga Yesu anati:
( Yohane 8:34, 35 ) Yesu anayankha iwo, Indetu, indetu, ndinena kwa inu, Aliyense wochita tchimo ali kapolo wa uchimo. 35 Ndipo kapolo sakhala m’nyumba nthawi zonse;
Komabe, ngati muvutika ndi ukapolo wauchimo, mukhoza kumasulidwa. Yesu, amene ananena mawu apitawo onena za ukapolo wa uchimo, alinso bwenzi la ochimwa ( Mateyu 11:19 ) monga adani ake anamutcha. Iye amalandira ochimwa, mwachitsanzo, anthu monga aliyense wa ife.
( Luka 15:1, 2 ) Pamenepo amisonkho onse ndi anthu ochimwa anayandikira kwa iye kuti amve. 2 Ndipo Afarisi ndi alembi adang’ung’udza, nanena, Munthu uyu alandira wochimwa , nadya nawo.
Choncho, ngati mukuvutika ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena ndinu kapolo wauchimo mwanjira ina, mukhoza kumasulidwa ngati mutembenukira kwa Yesu Khristu. Adalonjeza kukumasulani.
- ( Yohane 8:36 ) Chifukwa chake ngati Mwana adzakuyesani inu aufulu, mudzakhala mfulu ndithu.
Kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi tchimo. Choopsa kwambiri chokhudza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha n’chakuti ndi uchimo ndipo ochita zake sadzalowa mu ufumu wa Mulungu. Anthu ambiri sangakonde, koma linalembedwa zaka 2,000 zapitazo, mosadalira ife. Ndime zotsatirazi zikunena izi:
( 1 Akor. 6:9, 10 ) Kodi simukudziwa kuti osalungama sadzalandira ufumu wa Mulungu? Musanyengedwe; adama, kapena opembedza mafano, kapena achigololo, kapena akudziipsa ndi amuna ; 10 Kapena mbala, kapena osirira, kapena oledzera, kapena olalatira, kapena olanda, sadzalowa Ufumu wa Mulungu .
- ( Lev 18:22 ) Usamagonana ndi munthu, monga amagonana ndi akazi;
( Aroma 1:26, 27 ) Chifukwa cha ichi Mulungu anawapereka iwo ku zilakolako zonyansa ; 27 Chomwechonso amuna adasiya machitidwe a chibadwidwe cha mkazi, natenthetsana ndi chilakolako chawo wina ndi mzake; amuna ndi amuna akuchita chonyansa, nalandira mwa iwo okha mphotho ya kulakwa kwawo, imene inayenera.
(1 Tim 1:9,10) amayi, akupha, 10 Adama, akudzidetsa ndi anthu , akapolo, abodza, wolumbira wonama, ndipo ngati kuli kanthu kena kotsutsana ndi chiphunzitso cholamitsa;
- ( Yuda 1:7 ) Monganso Sodomu ndi Gomora, ndi midzi yowazungulira momwemo, idadzipereka ku chigololo, ndi kutsata zilakolako zachilendo , idayikidwa chitsanzo, kulangidwa kwa moto wosatha.
Chitsanzo chotsatira chikusonyeza kufunika kozindikira kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi chilakolako ndi tchimo. Ngati munthu samvetsetsa zimenezi, sangapeze mtendere ndi Mulungu ndi kukhala ndi chikumbumtima choyera. Zimalepheretsanso kuthekera kwake kupulumutsidwa:
Ndimakumbukira munthu wina amenenso ankapita kwa madokotala pafupipafupi. Anadzanso kudzalankhula ndi ine. Anthu anamupempherera kwambiri koma sanapeze mtendere ndi Mulungu. Aliyense anati: “Ingokhulupirirani Mulungu. Zakwana.” Koma Ambuye anandiuza za nkhaniyi ndipo ndinayesetsa kumufunsa wodwalayo funso lochititsa mantha: “Kodi ndiwe wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?” Iye anati: “Mukudziwa bwanji?” Ndinayankha kuti: “Ambuye anandisonyeza zimenezo.” "Zinachitika ndidakali wamng'ono," adatero. “Kodi mwaulula tchimo ili kwa Yehova? Ukaulula tchimo lako, udzachiritsidwa,” ndinayankha. “Koma limenelo si tchimo. Ndi matenda.” Ndinati: “Ndiye sindingathe kukuthandizani.” Ndinasazika kwa wodwala. Patapita milungu sikisi anabwera kwa ine n’kunena kuti: “Tsopano ndatsimikiza kuti ndi tchimo.” Ndinayankhanso kuti: “Ivomereni kwa Yehova.” Iye anayankha kuti: “Sindingathe.” Kwa theka la ola tinamenyera moyo wake, mpaka anaulula zochita zake kwa Yehova. Kuyambira tsiku limenelo wakhala munthu wosangalala. Sanapitenso kuchipatala cha anthu odwala matenda amisala. Chimwemwe chinkaoneka pankhope pake! Muli mphamvu mu mwazi wa Yesu Khristu. Mulungu amapereka chidzalo cha Mzimu Woyera kuti tithandize anthu ku ufulu. Anthu ali mu ukapolo wa uchimo, ndipo uthenga wachiphamaso wonena za Yesu sungathe kuwamasula. (14)
Komabe, anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha si tchimo ndipo akhoza kuteteza m’dzina la chikondi ndi kulolerana. Koma ndi bwino kufunsa kuti ngati ndime zam’mbuyomo za m’Baibulo n’zolondola, kodi sizikusintha nkhaniyo? Poganizira izi, zonena za anthu omwe amalimbikitsa ndi kuchirikiza moyo wogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zimangotsogolera ena kutali ndi Mulungu, kupita ku chiwonongeko. Anthu ameneŵa, amene samasamala za miyoyo ya anthu, amadziika eni kukhala maulamuliro aakulu pamene amanena kuti mavesi oyambirira a Baibulo ndi mabodza. Mwinamwake zimene Yesu ananena ponena za awo amene ziyeso zimadza kupyolera mwa iwo zimagwira ntchito kwa anthu oterowo ( Luka 17:1, 2 ; Onaninso Yakobo 3:1, 2 ) Koma chofunika kwambiri n’chakuti palibe amene ayenera kupita kumoto chifukwa cha kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena tchimo lina lililonse. Ngati titembenukira kwa Mulungu ndi kulapa, ndiye kuti zonse zikhoza kusintha ndipo tidzalandira chikhululukiro m’moyo wathu. Zimenezi zazikidwa pa zimene zinachitika zaka pafupifupi 2,000 zapitazo kupyolera mwa Yesu. Baibulo limatiuza momveka bwino kuti Mulungu anamtuma Iye – Yesu Mesiya – chifukwa Mulungu anakonda dziko lapansi ndi aliyense wa ife:
- ( Yohane 3:16 ) Pakuti Mulungu anakonda dziko lapansi kotero, kuti anapatsa Mwana wake wobadwa yekha , kuti yense wakukhulupirira Iye asatayike, koma akhale nawo moyo wosatha.
Baibulo limatiuza kuti pamene Khristu anabwera pa dziko lapansi, anachotsa uchimo wa dziko lapansi mwa kufa pa mtanda. Chifukwa uchimo wa dziko lapansi unayikidwa pa Iye ndi kuchotsedwa, machimo athunso anachotsedwa. Izi zimathandiza kuti Mulungu atikhululukire machimo athu, ndi kutipatsa moyo watsopano pano pa Dziko Lapansi, ngati tikufuna kuulandira:
- ( Yoh. 1:29 ) Tsiku lotsatira Yohane anaona Yesu akubwera kwa iye, ndipo anati: “ Onani Mwanawankhosa wa Mulungu amene achotsa uchimo wa dziko lapansi .
- ( 2 Akor. 6:1, 2 ) Chotero ife, monga antchito pamodzi naye, tidandaulira inunso kuti musalandire chisomo cha Mulungu pachabe . 2 (Pakuti anati, Ndinamva iwe m’nyengo yolandirika, ndipo m’tsiku la chipulumutso ndinakuthandiza; taonani, ino ndiyo nthawi yolandiridwa;
KULANDIRA MOYO. Ngati wina wachoka kwa Mulungu kwa nthawi yayitali, akhoza kupulumutsidwa ndikukhala ndi chiyanjano ndi Iye. Angathenso kugonjetsa zizoloŵezi zake, kotero kuti zisalamulire mbali yaikulu ya moyo wake. Izi zikuphatikizapo mbali zotsatirazi:
Kubwera kwa Atate wa Kumwamba . Chinthu choyamba ndi pamene titembenukira kwa Atate wathu wakumwamba. Zimangochitika kudzera mwa Yesu Khristu, monga momwe Yesu mwini adanenera:
- ( Yohane 14:6 ) Yesu anati kwa iye, Ine ndine njira, ndi choonadi, ndi moyo: palibe munthu adza kwa Atate, koma mwa Ine .
Chotero, pamene inuyo panokha mutembenukira kwa Mulungu kupyolera mwa Yesu Kristu, mungamuuze kuti mukufuna kukhala ogwirizana ndi Iye ndi kuti mufunikira chipulumutso. Luka 15 akufotokoza nkhani ya mwana wolowerera. Mwanayo anaulula machimo ake n’kubwerera kwa bambo ake. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, bamboyo anamumvera chisoni n’kuthamangira kwa iye. Kaonedwe ka Atate wathu wa Kumwamba pa inu ndi ife tonse amene timatembenukira kwa Iye ndi chimodzimodzi:
( Luka 15:18-20 ) Ndidzanyamuka ndi kupita kwa atate wanga , ndipo ndidzanena nawo, Atate, ndinachimwira kumwamba, ndi pamaso panu; 19 Ndipo sindiyeneranso konse kutchulidwa mwana wanu; mundiyese ine ngati m’modzi wa antchito anu. 20 Ndipo adanyamuka nadza kwa atate wake; Koma pamene iye akali kutali, atate wake anamuwona iye, ndipo anagwidwa chifundo , nathamanga, nagwa pakhosi pake, nampsompsona.
Dziwani chikondi cha Mulungu ! Kenako zindikirani kuti Mulungu amakukondani. Iye amakukondani nthawi zonse, ngakhale pamene simunamudziwe. Kwalembedwa:
- ( Aroma 5:6-8 ) Pakuti pamene tinali chikhalire opanda mphamvu, m’nthaŵi yake Kristu anafera osapembedza. 7 Pakuti n’zovuta kuti munthu afere munthu wolungama, koma mwina ena angayerekeze kufera munthu wabwino. 8 Koma Mulungu atsimikiza kwa ife chikondi chake kwa ife, kuti pokhala ife chikhalire ochimwa, Khristu adatifera ife .
Muyeneranso kumvetsetsa kuti zomwezi zikugwiranso ntchito ngati mwatembenukira kwa Mulungu. Chikondi cha Mulungu sichitengera momwe moyo wanu wakhalira wabwino kapena momwe mwagonjetsera uchimo, ndi chikondi chanthawi zonse. Izi ndi zomwe kalata ya Paulo kwa Aroma ikunena za izi:
( Aroma 8:35, 39 ) Ndani adzatilekanitsa ndi chikondi cha Khristu ? 39 Ngakhale utali, kapena kuya, kapena cholengedwa china chilichonse, sichidzatha kutilekanitsa ife ndi chikondi cha Mulungu , chimene chili mwa Khristu Yesu Ambuye wathu.
Khulupirirani ! Chinthu chachitatu n’chakuti muzidalira mphamvu za Mulungu pa moyo wanu. Izi zikuchokera pa mfundo yakuti mudamezetsanidwa kwa Khristu (Yohane 15:5). Mukayesedwa ( ndipo izi zidzachitikadi! ), mukhoza kuyang'ana pa Khristu ndikudikirira kuti achite zomwe simungathe kwa inu. Simudzakhala angwiro m’kuphethira kwa diso, koma mutha kudalira thandizo Lake m’moyo wanu:
- ( Afilipi 1:6 ) Pokhulupirira chinthu chomwecho, kuti iye amene anayamba ntchito yabwino mwa inu adzayichita kufikira tsiku la Yesu Khristu.
Choncho, ngati muli ndi chiyeso kapena chizoloŵezi cha kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kumbukirani kuti mungathe kugonjetsa m'njira yofanana ndi yomwe mungagonjetse mkwiyo, kudzudzula, kuledzera, ndi machimo ena: ndi mphamvu ya Yesu Khristu. Zimenezi zinali zofala kwambiri mu mpingo woyambirira ndipo tingayembekezere zimenezo tsopano. Muyenera kutembenukira kwa Mulungu ndikudikirira kuti chozizwitsa chake chichitike m'moyo wanu:
- ( Tito 3:3-5 ) Pakuti ifenso nthawi zina tinali opusa, osamvera, onyengeka, otumikira zilakolako ndi zokondweretsa zamitundumitundu, okhala m’dumbo ndi kaduka, odanidwa, ndi kudana wina ndi mnzake . 4 Koma zitatha izi, kukoma mtima ndi chikondi cha Mulungu Mpulumutsi wathu zidaonekera kwa anthu. 5 Osati mwa ntchito za chilungamo zimene ife tinazichita, koma monga mwa chifundo chake anatipulumutsa ife, mwa kusambitsidwa kwa kubadwanso kwatsopano, ndi kukonzanso kwa Mzimu Woyera;
References:
1. Jerry Arterburn: Kun kulissit kaatuvat (How Will I Tell My Mother), p.131 2. Same, p. 73 3. Andrew Comiskey: Täyteen miehuuteen ja koko naiseksi (Pursuing Sexual Wholeness), p. 131 4. Leanne Payne: Särkynyt minäkuva (The Broken Image), p. 46 5. Andrew Comiskey: Täyteen miehuuteen ja koko naiseksi (Pursuing Sexual Wholeness), p. 139,140 6. Leanne Payne: Särkynyt minäkuva (The Broken Image), p. 84, 85 7. Jerry Arterburn: Kun kulissit kaatuvat (How Will I Tell My Mother), p. 39,40 8. Carlos Annacondia: Kuuntele minua Saatana! (Listen to me, satan!), p. 122 9. Leanne Payne: Särkynyt minäkuva (The Broken Image), p.30 10. Roland Werner: Toisenlainen rakkaus (Homosexualität – ein Schicksal?), p.48 11. Same, p.50,51 12. Näky-magazine 4 / 2008, p. 10-12 13. Andrew Comiskey: Täyteen mieheyteen ja koko naiseksi (Pursuing Sexual Wholeness), p. 171,172 14. Michael Harry: Te saatte voiman, p. 75
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Other Google Translate machine translations:
Mamilioni azaka / ma dinosaur / chisinthiko cha anthu? Sayansi muchinyengo: ziphunzitso zosakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu zoyambira ndi mamiliyoni azaka Kodi madinosaur anakhala liti?
Mbiri ya Baibulo
Chikhulupiriro chachikhristu: sayansi, ufulu waumunthu Chikhulupiriro chachikhristu ndi ufulu waumunthu
Zipembedzo zaku Eastern / New Age Kodi munthu amabadwanso kwina?
Chisilamu mavumbulutso ndi moyo wa Muhammad Kupembedza mafano mu Islam ndi ku Mecca
Mafunso okhudza chikhalidwe Khalani omasuka ku kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha Ukwati wosakondera pakati pa amuna ndi akazi Euthanasia ndi zizindikiro za nthawi
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