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Kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina no kubohorwa
Niki gitera kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina, ibintu byihishe inyuma kandi umuntu ashobora kubikuraho? Ni ukubera iki ari icyaha n'irari nk'umururumba, umururazi n'indi myifatire itari yo?
Mu mirongo ikurikira, tugiye kurebera hamwe abaryamana bahuje igitsina nimpamvu zayo. Ikigamijwe ni ugutekereza cyane cyane ku nkomoko y’ubutinganyi ndetse n’uko umuntu ashobora kubohorwa, ndetse n’ibyo Bibiliya ivuga kuri iyo ngingo. Benshi barashobora kutabyemera, ariko bagomba gusoma ibyanditswe byose.
INYUMA ZISUBIZE MU BURYO BWA HOMOSEXUALITY. Iyo ushakisha impamvu yo kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina, imwe mu ngingo z'ingenzi ni uko abaryamana bahuje ibitsina bavuka kandi ko nta kintu na kimwe gishobora gukorwa kuri yo. Byasobanuwe ko bamwe bavutse bahuje igitsina kandi bagomba kwemera umwirondoro wabo. Ariko, mugihe wiga kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina, ntibyashobokaga kubona niyo mpamvu imwe yabakomotseho. Nta gene cyangwa ikindi kintu cyarazwe cyabonetse gishobora gutera abaryamana bahuje igitsina. Ibyagaragaye neza muri kariya gace birabuze. Ahubwo, ibintu bimwe byingenzi nibintu byihariye, biri kurutonde hepfo, bisa nkibyingenzi cyane. Izi ngingo zabonetse inshuro nyinshi mubushakashatsi bwinshi no mubazwa byakozwe. Benshi muribo bafitanye isano. Tuzabareba ubutaha:
UMUGORE W'ABAGABO
Kwangwa na se . Ahari ikintu gisanzwe gitera kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina kubagabo nukubura icyitegererezo cya se ususurutse kandi wuje urukundo. Niba se yararakaye cyane, atitaye kubantu, kandi akanga, ibyo birashobora gutuma umuhungu cyangwa umugabo batangira gushaka kwemerwa nabagabo, kuko atabikuye kuri se. Rero, kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina ni igitsina cyo kwifuza se (ku bagore, nyina, nyina) ku bagabo. Niba umugabo yagize icyitegererezo cyiza cya se, bizarinda iterambere ryabahuje ibitsina. Jerry Arterburn, wahoze ari abaryamana bahuje igitsina, avuga kuri ibi:
Inkunga yinyongera no kwemerwa bihabwa umwana birashobora kuba bihagije nkibyo. Abaryamana bahuje igitsina benshi bavuze ko mu byukuri bifuzaga kwemerwa n'abagabo. Iyaba ba se bahinduye imyumvire bagaha abahungu babo kurushaho, ubuzima bwabo bwose bwashoboraga kugenda muburyo bwiza. (1)
Abandi bagabo. Hafi yingirakamaro nkukwanga se nabwo kwangwa nabandi bagabo bakomeye, nkabavandimwe na banyeshuri twigana. Uku kwangwa kurashobora kwambura umuhungu cyangwa umugabo icyitegererezo gikenewe cyo kumenyekanisha igitsina cye kandi bikamutandukanya. Abagabo benshi bagiye mu mibonano mpuzabitsina bahuje igitsina kuko babonye kwemerwa nubufatanye bwinshuti zabagabo batigeze babona mbere. Jerry Arterburn yavuze uburyo ibi byamugizeho ingaruka cyane cyane:
Ntabwo nahindutse mubitsina byuzuye amaraso. Impinduka yabaye buhoro buhoro kuburyo ntahise mbibona. Ubwa mbere, natekereje gusa ko ndimo gushaka inshuti nabari tuziranye. Nishimiye inshuti nshya. Basaga nkaho bumva ibyo nanyuzemo mubwana bwanjye. (…) Nashakaga kumenya niba kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina ari yo mpamvu yatumye numva meze. Nahagaritse gukundana nabakobwa ntangira kumarana igihe nabashakanye bahuje igitsina nari nzi muri kaminuza. Nari meze neza muri iri tsinda, kandi abahungu banjyanye munsi yamababa yabo nkabavandimwe. Numvaga nunze ubumwe, nkaba ntari narigeze numva no muri kumwe na barumuna banjye. Ibyiyumvo byo kwemerwa byari igitangaza. Byaragerageje kwisi abaryamana bahuje igitsina kuruta ibindi byose. (2)
Andrew Comiskey yavuze kandi uburyo yatangiye kumva yifuza kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina kuko yari yaritandukanije n'inshuti ze z'abagabo bo mu kigero kimwe. Iyi yari imwe mu mpamvu zingenzi zatumye yifuza kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina:
Mubice byinshi byiterambere ryanjye ryambere ryimibonano mpuzabitsina, kwitandukanya nubugabo bwanjye byashoboraga kugaragara. Numvaga bidahagije kandi bidakwiriye uruhare rwumugabo. Byatewe ahanini nintera yamarangamutima narinze data, ibyo bikaba byaratewe nibyifuzo byanjye bwite hamwe nibitekerezo byanjye nkuko byari bimeze kubitagenda neza kwa data. Gutandukana na data byashimangiwe no gukomeza kwangwa ninshuti zanjye zabagabo zatangiye mumashuri abanza kandi bikomeza mubugimbi. Kubera ko nari naritandukanije na data n'inshuti zanjye z'abagabo, natangiye kumva nifuza cyane abaryamana bahuje igitsina. Sinigeze numva umwuka wo kubabaza no guca imanza nagize kubagabo. Ntabwo numvise ukuntu byangoye guhangana nubugabo bwanjye. (3)
Ingaruka za Mama. Umubyeyi arashobora kandi kugira uruhare mukuvuka kw'abahuje igitsina. Niba atandukanije abana na se, agahuza umuhungu cyane cyane aho kuba uwo bashakanye, kandi agafata umuhungu we nkumunyamabanga, birashobora guteza ingaruka zikomeye. Ubwuzu bw'umubyeyi burashobora kuyobya umuhungu mubitekerezo, kandi mugihe umuhungu ashyizwe mubikorwa byo kwizerwa, biramugora gutandukanya umwirondoro we bwite na nyina. Ashobora gukurikiza icyitegererezo cya nyina aho gukurikiza se. Leanne Payne yabisobanuye:
Niba umwana adafite ishusho ikomeye kandi ishyigikira se, umubyeyi urinda cyane ukomeza umuhungu we nabi birashobora gutuma umuhungu we agira ingorane zo gutandukanya indangamuntu ye na nyina, kandi nyina ashobora guteza imbere imyitwarire y'abaryamana bahuje igitsina. umuhungu. (4)
Icyitegererezo cya kabiri gishoboka ni umubyeyi utegeka kandi wiganje kunegura umugabo we imbere yabana. Umubyeyi arashobora gukara cyane no gutesha agaciro umugabo we, bikangiza cyane ishusho yumuhungu wa se. Irashobora kandi gutuma umuhungu agira ingorane nyuma yo kwizera abagore, kuko nyina yamuhaye urugero rwiganje kandi rutegeka. Ubu bwoko bwinyuma bwasobanuwe na Andrew Comiskey:
Buri gihe nabonye uburyo aba bantu badashoboye imibonano mpuzabitsina badahuje igitsina kuko bumva ko umubyeyi mudahuje igitsina yakoresheje undi mubyeyi. Umugabo umwe wasabye ubufasha ntabwo yizeraga abagore na gato kuko nyina yari yaritwaye mu buryo bwiganje ku mugabo we utuje kandi aramutuka. (5)
Imyitwarire mibi y'ababyeyi ku mibonano mpuzabitsina. Ikintu kimwe gitera kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina gishobora kuba imyumvire mibi y'ababyeyi ku mibonano mpuzabitsina. Urugero, ababyeyi barashobora guhana umwana wabo bidafite ishingiro kuba yerekanye umubiri we mugihe akina nabandi bana. Ibi birashobora kuvamo kwanga igitsina muri rusange. Rimwe na rimwe, imyitwarire mibi y'ababyeyi idafite ishingiro irashobora guteza ibyangiritse gusa. Uru rubanza rushobora kandi kuba se usebya umuhungu we gukanguka gukunda abakobwa, aho umuhungu ashobora kubyumva nabi nkikintu kidakwiriye, cyanduye, kandi kidasanzwe (hashobora no kubaho izindi mpamvu zibitera inyuma). Nyuma umuhungu arashobora kwitabaza igitsina cye kugirango yemererwe nigitsina. David na Don Wilkerson babisobanuye mu gitabo cyabo The Untapped Generation:
Abana bahora baburirwa ku kaga k’imibonano mpuzabitsina batangira kubatekereza ko birambiranye kandi byanduye. Umwana asobanura ibyiyumvo bye byimibonano mpuzabitsina mugihe cyubwangavu bidasanzwe kandi ashobora kumva afite icyaha kubera bo. Umwana yenda yigishijwe gutinya abantu badahuje igitsina. Ababyeyi ubwabo bafite ibibazo bijyanye nigitsina cyabo akenshi babizi cyangwa batabishaka bagaragariza abana babo ibyo byiyumvo. Ababyeyi barera abana babo bafite imyumvire myiza kubijyanye n'imibonano mpuzabitsina ntibagomba gutinya ko umwana wabo aba abaryamana bahuje igitsina; birashoboka cyane ko umwana azakura bisanzwe. Urugo rwuzuyemo imyifatire myiza ku mibonano mpuzabitsina rugomba kuba rwuzuyemo ibimenyetso umwana ashobora gusoza avuga ko kudahuza ibitsina atari ibisanzwe kandi byiza, ahubwo ko bihesha kandi bishimishije. Imibonano mpuzabitsina iringaniye ababyeyi bafite ubushake bwo gushishikariza ubugabo mubahungu nubugore mubakobwa. (…)
Ibisabwa nabi. Ikindi kintu gitera kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina kirashobora kuba ababyeyi batengushye kuba barabonye umuhungu aho kuba umukobwa, kandi bakabishaka bagerageza guhatira umwana wabo uruhare mudahuje igitsina, urugero nko kwambara umuhungu wambaye umukobwa. Leanne Payne atanga urugero rwiza rwibi:
Loren, umusore mwiza, mwiza cyane wimyaka mirongo ine, yari afite abaryamana bahuje igitsina kuva akiri muto. Ibi byari byateje amakimbirane akomeye hagati ye na se, nibibazo mubundi bucuti bwe. Ntiyigeze yemera, ariko yarwanije imyitwarire ye ashishikaye igihe yatonganaga na se. Yatahuye ko kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina birimo inzika no kwigomeka kuri se, ariko ntabwo yigeze abasha guhangana na byo. Uyu mugabo yari yarabonye Kristo nukuri agakiza, ariko akenshi yatsinzwe urugamba rwo kurwanya abaryamana bahuje igitsina, kugeza igihe Imana yerekanaga ibyo yibuka bwa mbere. Ibi byabaye mugihe twasabye Uwiteka gushaka ibyo kwibuka byerekana impanvu yikibazo. Muri iri sengesho, yibutse ikintu cyabaye akivuka gusa. Yabonye se yinjira mucyumba yari amaze kuvuka. Gutenguha byahise byuzura icyumba kandi biramuremerera cyane. Se amwitegereza yanga urunuka ati: "Nongeye umuhungu!" Hanyuma arahindukira, yihutira kuva mu cyumba. Loren yari umuhungu wabo wa gatatu, bari bizeye umukobwa. Loren "yabonye" ibyo byose arabyongera - kandi noneho, yabisobanukiwe haba mu bwenge no mu marangamutima. Uku kwangwa kwasobanuye impamvu Loren yaje kugerageza kuba umukobwa, byatangajwe cyane numuryango. Yashakaga gukina nudukinisho nabakobwa, ntabwo yakinaga nabahungu. Yagerageje atabishaka agerageza kuba umukobwa se yari yizeye. (6)
Guhohoterwa numuntu mudahuje igitsina birashobora kandi gutera imyitwarire yabahuje igitsina. Jerry Arterburn avuga uburyo yakorewe ihohoterwa rishingiye ku gitsina, kikaba ari kimwe mu bintu byamuteye inzira itari yo. Avuga kandi umubare w'inshuti ze bahuje igitsina bafite amateka amwe. Andi magambo yavuye mu gitabo cy'umuvugabutumwa wo muri Arijantine Carlos Annacondia avuga ku kibazo kimwe:
Igisubizo cyuwo mugoroba nuko ibyiyumvo byanjye byacitse intege. Nari narahohotewe. Ku bwanjye, iyo yari intangiriro yimpera. (…) Urugamba rwanjye rwamaze imyaka mirongo itatu rusa n'urwa bahuje ibitsina benshi. Nahuye nabantu benshi nkanjye, binjiye mubutinganyi kuko abahungu bakuru cyangwa abagabo bakuze babasambanyije. Igitangaje, uburambe bwanjye bwa mbere bwampaye ibitekerezo kubagabo nifuzaga. Muri icyo gihe, yatanyaguje umutekano wanjye usanzwe ufite intege nke no kwihesha agaciro. (7)
Abantu benshi Imana yakuyeho kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina batubwiye ko bafashwe ku ngufu cyangwa bahohotewe mu bwana. Akenshi amagambo nkaya “Urakabije,” ababyeyi bavuga, kandi bikababaza umwana, birashobora guca intege umuhungu muto. Ariko iyo Yesu aje mubuzima bwabo, umwuka mubi ugomba kugenda bakarekurwa. Ndashobora kwizeza ko ntayindi miti ikenewe. (8)
URUGO RW'ABAGORE . Mugihe amateka yubutinganyi bwabagabo mubusanzwe ari umubano mubi wa se, abagore bafite ibibazo mubucuti bwa nyina. Ninimpamvu ikunze kugaragara kubaryamana bahuje igitsina. Leanne Payne yabonye ko iyi ari yo mpamvu isanzwe itera abaryamana bahuje igitsina:
Noneho numvise ko ubusa bwamarangamutima bwatumaga Lisa yumva cyane kandi byamuteye guhita yinjira mubucuti numwarimu we wigitsina gore. Imyitwarire ya Lesbian (usibye iyo ari ikibazo cyimiterere yimiterere) nka neurose yimibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo igoye nkimyitwarire yabahuje igitsina kubagabo. Nkurikije ubunararibonye bwanjye, muri rusange biterwa no gukenera kuzamuka mu bibero bya nyina bitujujwe na gato cyangwa bidahagije mu bwana. (9)
Erik Ewalds yakoze ubushakashatsi bumwe kubyerekeye kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina. Yanditse mu gitabo cye ( Tahdotko tulla terveeksi , p. 94):
Mugihe cyo kuvura abaryamana bahuje igitsina, nabonye ko impamvu imwe ituma bitwara ari uko badafite ishusho ya se bashobora kubana nkabana. Ntabwo babonye ubufasha mu gushaka igitsina cyabo cyangwa ego yaba yarabohora. Kuva kera, nagerageje no kumenya icyihishe inyuma yubutinganyi bwabagore. Nibura impamvu imwe nuko umubyeyi atabaye intangarugero nziza.Noneho umukobwa yagiye hanze guhatanira kumenyekana nabagabo. Agerageza rero kwihesha agaciro ahanganye nabagabo. Simvuze ko iyi ari yo mpamvu yonyine yo kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina ku bagore ireba abaryamana bahuje igitsina bose ariko hari ibibazo nk'ibi, abagore twaganiriye kandi nagize amahirwe yo gufasha mu kwibona.
• Impamvu imwe itera abaryamana bahuje igitsina ni ubwoba bwumugore ninzangano kuri se nabandi bagabo, kuko bamwitayeho. Nanone, niba yarahuye n’ihohoterwa rishingiye ku gitsina rituruka ku bagabo, birashobora kumwongerera ubwoba no kwanga abagabo. Mu kwifuza urukundo, arashobora kwitabaza umwe mu bahuje igitsina.
• Niba ababyeyi bifuzaga umuhungu aho kuba umukobwa hanyuma ukabishaka ugerageza guhatira umukobwa uruhare rwumuhungu, ibyo nibintu byabigenewe. Nibintu bisanzwe byibanze mubagabo bahuje igitsina.
KUBONA KUBIKORWA . Amavu n'amavuko yo kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina akenshi ni ibintu bitameze neza, byavuzwe haruguru. Icyakora, hagomba kuvugwa ko nubwo abantu benshi bafite ibihe bisa, ntabwo byatumye bahuza ibitsina. Bashoboye kubabazwa nibintu bimwe nyamara ntibigeze binjira mubuzima busa. Imyitwarire yacu mubihe byacu ifite akamaro kanini. Urugero rwiza nuko nubwo indaya nabagizi ba nabi bahora baturuka munzu zimwe na zimwe, abantu benshi bahuje ibibazo ntibarangije kuba indaya cyangwa abagizi ba nabi. Byerekana ko umuntu wese ashobora guhindura amahitamo ye. Alan Medinger, we wahoze ari abaryamana bahuje igitsina, avuga byinshi kuri iyo ngingo. Avuga ko ibintu ubwabyo atari byo byamuteye kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina, ahubwo ko uko yabyifashemo. Inkuru ye rwose ni ukuri kubandi bantu benshi ubu bakora imibonano mpuzabitsina:
Urashobora gusanga mubihe byashize hafi ya byose mubihe bisanzwe bikekwa ko bitera kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina: Ntabwo nari umwana ushakishwa, ababyeyi banjye bari bizeye umukobwa, mfite musaza wanjye wujuje neza ibyo data yari yiteze, kandi a se wagize ibibazo bikomeye mubuzima bwe bwamarangamutima. Ntiyashoboraga gucunga ubuzima bwe, tutibagiwe no kuba umubyeyi nyawe kubahungu be. Nzi ko ibi bintu bitigeze bitera kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina. Ahubwo, uko nabyakiriye byanyoboye muri iki cyerekezo. (10)
HASHOBORA GUHINDUKA? Nkuko byavuzwe, imyitwarire y'abaryamana bahuje igitsina yakunze gutsindishirizwa no kumva ko ivuka kandi ko impinduka zidashoboka. Ndetse n'ubwoko butari bwo bw'impuhwe bwerekanwe bakavuga bati: "Wavutse gutya; ugomba kwemera umugabane wawe." Iki nigitekerezo gisanzwe kizanwa kenshi. Ariko nkuko twabivuze mbere, kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina ntabwo bivuka, ahubwo ni ikibazo cyibihe no guhitamo kwawe. Niba ari umurage, birashoboka ko, nk'urugero, mu bana batatu, abantu bose, atari umwe gusa, barangiza bahuje igitsina. Ariko, umwanya munini ibi ntibibaho, kandi ikibazo kirashobora kugarukira kumuvandimwe umwe gusa. Mu buryo nk'ubwo, niba ari umurage, ababyeyi na basogokuru na bo bagomba kuba bafite icyerekezo kimwe. Ariko, ntibabaye. Byerekana ko kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina atari ikibazo cyo kuragwa cyangwa kuvuka. Tuvuge iki ku guhinduka? Birashoboka rwose, nubwo abaryamana bahuje ibitsina benshi bashobora kuvuga ko badashobora cyangwa badahinduka. Ariko, Imana, yaremye umugabo umugabo numugore, irashobora gukiza umuntu wavunitse, kuko aribyo nabyo. Arashobora gukiza kuvunika k'umuntu no gusana ibyangiritse imbere mumyaka. Umuntu agomba kubanza kwiyegurira Imana ubuzima bwe. Urugero rwiza rwuburyo Imana ikora igaragara muri Kor. 6. Muri iki gice, hasobanuwe uburyo abaryamana bahuje ibitsina batazaragwa ubwami bw'Imana, ariko noneho Pawulo yongeraho ati: "Kandi bamwe bari bamwe muri mwe." Ibi byerekana ko bamwe muri abo bantu mbere bahuje igitsina ariko ntibakiriho. Pawulo yaranditse ati:
- (1 Kor 6: 9,11) Ntimuzi ko abakiranirwa batazaragwa ubwami bw'Imana? Ntukabeshye: yaba abasambanyi, cyangwa abasenga ibigirwamana, cyangwa abasambanyi, cyangwa abasambanyi, cyangwa abahohotera hamwe n'abantu , 10 Ntabwo abajura, cyangwa abifuza, cyangwa abasinzi, cyangwa abatukana, cyangwa abambuzi, bazaragwa ubwami bw'Imana. 11 Kandi bamwe muri bo bari bamwe : ariko mwarogejwe, ariko mwejejwe, ariko mutsindishirizwa mu izina ry'Umwami Yesu, n'Umwuka w'Imana yacu.
Alan Medinger yavuze kandi kubyerekeye impinduka ze. Irekurwa rye ryabaye gitunguranye, ntabwo buri gihe bibaho kubantu bose:
Bukeye bwaho niminsi yakurikiyeho mbona ko ibitangaza byinshi byabaye. Ibitekerezo byo kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina nagize buri munsi mumyaka 25 ishize byari byarazimiye. Nabonye urukundo nkurwo kuri Willa, kuburyo ntari narigeze ntekereza ko bishoboka. Kandi icyaba aricyo cyingenzi cyane, Imana ntiyari ikiri umucamanza wa kure kuri njye, ahubwo yari yarabaye Umukiza wanjye bwite. Yesu yarankunze, kandi namukunze cyane. Nibwo bwa mbere numvise icyo gukunda no gukundwa bivuze. (…) Kuberako gukira kuva kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina byabaye gitunguranye, nkunze kubazwa uburyo gukira gutunganye rwose. Nshobora gusubiza mvuga ko igihe ari gihamya yukuri kandi ko ishyingiranwa ryiza ari imbuto zaryo. Mu myaka icumi ishize, ntabwo nigeze mbona ibishuko byombi. Hamwe n'ibishuko ndashaka kuvuga ko naba natekereje cyane cyangwa nifuzaga kuryamana nabagabo. Ariko, nyuma yo gukira kwibanze Njye muburyo nabuze kugira umugabo mukuru, ukomeye mubuzima bwanjye. Ikindi kandi ibi byarashize, kandi mbona abagabo nkabavandimwe banjye, ntabwo ari ba se cyangwa abarinzi. (11)
Reka turebe irindi jambo rifitanye isano ninsanganyamatsiko. Ivuga ibyerekeye umugore udahuje igitsina wabayeho imyaka 37 mu nshingano zumugabo (Umutwe winyandiko ni: imyaka 37 muruhare rwumugabo: Imana yagaruye umwirondoro wanjye). Yakoze nkumugabo, yambaye nkumugabo kandi akoresha izina ryumugabo. Yahagaritse ibintu byose byigitsina gore muri we kandi bake cyane bari bazi ko mubyukuri ari umugore. Impamvu yimyitwarire ye ahanini yari imiterere yubwana bwe nubuzima bwe, akaba arirwo rusangi rwabahuje ibitsina nabafite ubumuga bwimibonano mpuzabitsina. Ababyeyi be bashakaga umuhungu aho kuba umukobwa, asanga yishimiye ababyeyi be neza mu nshingano z’umuhungu. Ariko, kwibohora no gukira byatangiye igihe yahaye Imana ubuzima bwe:
… Nkomoka mu Buholandi. Data yari Umutaliyani, mama yari Umunyaromani wo mu Buholandi. Umuryango wanjye wasenyutse cyane. Nabwirijwe guhangana nisi yubugizi bwa nabi bwa Rotterdam nsanzwe mubuto. La Serpe avuga ko mfite imyaka cumi n'ine, nakatiwe igifungo cy'imyaka itatu n'igice . Kubera ibibazo murugo, umukobwa yamaranye imyaka myinshi yubwana na nyirakuru mubutaliyani. Ababyeyi be bari bizeye ko imfura zabo zizaba umuhungu. Umukobwa yabonye akiri muto ko yashimishije ababyeyi be kandi akayobora mumihanda neza nkumuhungu. Imyambarire, imitako na makiyike ntibyari kuri we. Luisa yahagaritse ibintu byose byigitsina gore muri we afata izina rye izina ryumugabo Loid. Gusa bake bari bazi igitsina cye gikwiye kuko yogoshe umusatsi, akoresha imyenda yabagabo kandi yitwara nkabandi bagabo. (...) Uku niko guhinduka kwa Luisa kuva gucuruza ibiyobyabwenge aba umuvugabutumwa byatangiye. Uburinganire bwatangiye kugereranywa nuko atangiye gukira ibikomere by'imbere, muri byo uburambe bwo kwangwa mu bwana bwe bwari bunini. Byatwaye, ariko, imyaka itari mike mbere yuko atinyuka kureka umwirondoro we wumugabo ngo yite ku Mana. (...) Imana yijeje ko izi uko Luisa ameze. Yasezeranije gukiza ibikomere byo mu mutima we niba Luisa yamugarukiye. - Muri iryo joro, Umwuka Wera yaje aranyitaho. Nabonye gukira neza ibikomere byanjye imbere no kuba mumaboko ye nkumwana. Nihannye ko nabayeho mu nshingano z'umugabo kugeza ku myaka 37. Gusa ni bwo natinyutse kureka Imana indangamuntu yanjye rwose kandi nkemera uburinganire bwanjye. Umugore muremure, mwiza avunika amarangamutima inshuro nyinshi yibuka iminsi yashize. Urugendo ntirworoshye ariko uyumunsi arishimye. Luisa yuzuye impagarara zishimishije mugihe ategereje kureba icyo Imana yamuteganyirije ubutaha. Amaze gukira, Luisa yagarutse mu kazi ko mu kajagari mu bababaye cyane muri Fortaleza muri Berezile. Yerekana amafoto yifotozanya n'uwahoze ari umupadiri wa Macumba wakijijwe cyangwa agasengera hamwe n'umugore urira ufite impera zo hepfo ziteranijwe kubera diyabete itavuwe. - Ubukene, indwara, ubugizi bwa nabi nuburaya nukuri kwaburi munsi mucyaro. Rimwe na rimwe, byabaye ngombwa ko mpunga n'incuti zanjye mu bagizi ba nabi bitwaje ibyuma byo mu mashyamba. Ariko na none akazi kari gafite agaciro mugihe, Luisa La Serpe arishima. (12) Umubano wabantu ningirakamaro mugukiza no guhinduka, haba kubaryamana bahuje igitsina nabandi bantu. Benshi bafite uburambe bwo kwangwa mubihe byashize, aho banze urugero nka papa, nyina, umwarimu cyangwa inshuti zishuri. . _ -ishusho ni mbi. Barashobora kwanga, kunegura isura yabo no kuba, ariko kandi bagashidikanya kubandi bantu. Izi nizo ngaruka zisanzwe zo kwangwa no kwangwa kera. Nigute umuntu ashobora kwigobotora ibintu bidashimishije byahise ndetse no kwishushanya nabi? Inzira imwe nigikorwa cyImana kiziguye no gukoraho kwayo: irashobora kudukoraho mukanya kugirango dukire ibikomere byashize; ntibagihungabanya ubwenge bwacu. Arashobora gukora muminota mike icyakenera ubundi inzira yimyaka. Ubundi buryo bwo gukira nubusabane bwiza bwabantu. Iyo umuntu yiteze ko yangwa ariko akemerwa, birashobora kubafasha gukira no guteza imbere isura nziza. Ibi bireba abantu bose, baba bafite abahuje igitsina nabandi bantu. Reka turebe amagambo aho uwahoze ari abaryamana bahuje igitsina avuga uburyo umubano mwiza wamufashije kwiyakira:
Natangiye icyiciro gishya mubuzima bwanjye ubwo narushagaho kwemeza nkizera nkiri muto kwizera ko Imana ishobora kunkura kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina kandi ko yampamagariye kubohora abandi mwizina ryayo. Icy'ingenzi muri ibyo byose ni amashuri yanjye yahinduye: Nimukiye muri kaminuza ishaje njya muri kaminuza ya Californiya i Los Angeles (UCLA). Nimukiye mu nzu y'abagabo b'Abakristo, byari ikibazo kandi ni umugisha kuri njye mu buryo bungana. Nahatiwe guhangana n'ubwoba bwanjye n'urwikekwe ku bagabo - cyane cyane abagabo badahuje igitsina. Ibyifuzo byanjye bishaje byazamutse hejuru. Aba bagabo bagereranyaga imigenzo na orotodogisi, ubwoko busanzwe bwaranyanze kandi ndabyigomeke. (...) Nize ikintu kinini kandi ntari niteze mu mwaka wa mbere ngaho: aba bagabo bose barankunze. Nubwo ibimenyetso byose byerekana umuco wanjye udasanzwe (umusatsi muremure, ururimi rukaze, urwenya ruteye isoni), bazanye ibyiza muri njye kandi rwose bampaye umugisha. Rimwe na rimwe urukundo rwabo rwakomeraga. Umwe muri bo yigeze kumbwira kwihana ishema ryanjye n'imyitwarire ya elitiste (inzira yanjye y'icyaha yo kwirinda kwangwa). Ariko benshi mu bavandimwe banjye bagaragaje urukundo rwabo baransengera kandi banteye inkunga yo gukura muri Nyagasani. Natunguwe no guhura nabagabo nkabo bose bashoboye gukunda abandi bagabo mubwisanzure, ndetse nubwuzu, nta gahunda ya erotic. Imyifatire yanjye kuri bo rimwe na rimwe yabikwaga ariko nashimishijwe no kwemeza neza ubugabo bampaye. Igihe numvaga mfite umutekano uhagije, narakinguye kugira ngo mbwire umwe mu basore bari mu rugo ibyanjye ubwanjye, nshyira mu kaga ko kwangwa, ibyo bikaba byaratumye nshobora gukira imbere mu mutima ntari narigeze mbona. Nari umwe muribo kandi narabikundaga. Nasobanukiwe ko amaherezo nashoboye kwishimira urukundo nyarwo nabantu bahuje igitsina muburyo Imana yashakaga. Yesu yampaye ubutwari mugihe nabanye nabagabo. Yaramfashije anyemerera kumwishingikiriza no gukoresha impano yampaye. Bwa mbere mu buzima bwanjye, abandi bambwiye ko nshobora kugira impano nk'umuvugizi n'umujyanama. Natangiye kwibona nk'umukozi ufite imbaraga mu Bwami bw'Imana, aho kuba "abakira" bahuje igitsina. Nishimiye ubuzima kandi numvaga ko mfite agaciro n'imizi yanjye murukundo rwe n'umugambi we. Numvaga nabayeho muburyo bukomeye bw'Imana, nshakisha Imana kandi nishimira ko ikwitaho. Ubwitonzi bwe bwarasobanutse kandi burakomeje mugihe cyamezi cumi n'umunani cyangwa hafi namaze murugo. (13)
"MFITE IYI TENDENCY". Iyo turebye niba abaryamana bahuje ibitsina bavutse, abantu benshi bashobora gutongana bavuga ko bafite iyi myitwarire kandi ko ntacyo bashobora kubikoraho (twabonye mbere ko kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina bitavutse). Bashobora kandi kuvuga ko imyifatire yabo idashobora kwibeshya. Ariko rero, kuba umuntu afite impengamiro, nko kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina, ntibisanzwe. Abandi barashobora kugira impengamiro yo kunywa inzoga nyinshi, kunywa itabi, umujinya, ibintu bitashyingiranwa, gukoresha porunogarafiya, cyangwa ibindi. Ibyo nabyo ni imyumvire. Kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina ntabwo bitandukanye cyane nibintu byabanje. Ariko, kuba dufite imyumvire runaka - yaba ivuka cyangwa idahari - ntabwo bituma tuba ibitambo gusa. Turashobora, byibura kurwego runaka, guhitamo uko impengamiro yacu ituyobora. Rero, umuntu ufite imyumvire yo kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina arashobora guhitamo niba akora imibonano mpuzabitsina rwose cyangwa numuntu umwe cyangwa benshi. Mu buryo nk'ubwo, uwo bashakanye ashobora guhitamo niba agomba gukomeza kuba umwizerwa ku wo bashakanye, kabone niyo yaba ashutswe no gukundana n'undi muntu utari mu bashakanye. Mu buryo nk'ubwo, umukunzi w'ibiryo ashobora kugabanya ubushake bwo kurya ku rugero runaka, nk'uko itabi rishobora guhitamo igihe ashyira itabi mu kanwa. Ikibazo nukumenya niba tureka imyifatire yacu mibi ikagenga ubuzima bwacu. Pawulo yaranditse ati:
- (Rom 6:12) Ntureke rero icyaha kiganza mu mubiri wawe upfa, kugirango ubyumvire mu irari ryacyo.
Ubufasha bw'Imana mugutsinda impengamiro . Igika kibanziriza iki cyavuze kubyerekeranye no kubitsinda. Byongeye kandi, birashoboka ko umuntu yabaswe nibi bintu. Birashoboka ko uri umuntu warwanije kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina cyangwa ubundi buryo bwo kwishingikiriza ariko ukaba utarashoboye kubikuraho. Kuba ufite ibiyobyabwenge nkibi mubyukuri ni ikimenyetso cyuko uri mu itsinda runaka ryabantu. Muri Bibiliya, uri umugaragu w'icyaha nkuko Yesu yabivuze:
- (Yohana 8: 34,35) Yesu arabasubiza ati: "Ni ukuri, ni ukuri, ndababwiye nti: Umuntu wese ukora icyaha ni umugaragu w'icyaha. 35 Kandi umugaragu ntaguma mu nzu ubuziraherezo, ariko Umwana agumaho iteka.
Ariko, niba ubabajwe n'ubucakara bw'icyaha, urashobora kubohorwa. Yesu, wavuze amagambo yabanjirije kubyerekeye ubucakara bw'icyaha, na we ni inshuti y'abanyabyaha (Matayo 11:19) nk'uko abanzi be bamwitaga. Yemera abanyabyaha, ni ukuvuga abantu nka buri wese muri twe:
- (Luka 15: 1,2) Hanyuma aramwegera abasoresha bose nabanyabyaha kugirango bamwumve. 2 Abafarisayo n'abanditsi baritotomba bati: " Uyu muntu yakira abanyabyaha , kandi asangira na bo."
Noneho, niba ufite ikibazo cyo kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina cyangwa ukaba mubundi buryo bwo kuba imbata yicyaha, urashobora kubohorwa uramutse uhindukiriye Yesu Kristo. Yasezeranije kukubohora:
- (Yohana 8:36) Niba rero Umwana azakubohora, uzaba umudendezo rwose.
Kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina ni icyaha. Ikintu gikomeye cyane kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina ni uko ari icyaha kandi ko abawukora batazaragwa ubwami bw'Imana. Abantu benshi bashobora kutabikunda, ariko byanditswe hashize imyaka 2000, bitigenga rwose. Imirongo ikurikira ivuga kuri ibi:
- (1 Kor 6: 9,10) Ntimuzi ko abakiranirwa batazaragwa ubwami bw'Imana? Ntukabeshye: yaba abasambanyi, cyangwa abasenga ibigirwamana, cyangwa abasambanyi, cyangwa abasambanyi, cyangwa abahohotera hamwe n'abantu , 10 Ntabwo abajura, cyangwa abifuza, cyangwa abasinzi, cyangwa abatukana, cyangwa abambuzi, bazaragwa ubwami bw'Imana .
- (Lewi 18:22) Ntukaryamane n'abantu, kimwe n'abagore: ni ikizira.
- (Rom 1: 26,27) Kubera iyo mpamvu , Imana yabahaye urukundo rubi: kuko nabagore babo bahinduye imikoreshereze karemano muburyo bunyuranye na kamere : 27 Kandi na none, abagabo, baretse gukoresha umugore bisanzwe, batwitse irari ryabo. abagabo hamwe nabagabo bakora ibitagaragara, kandi bakakira ubwabo izo ndishyi zamakosa yabo yahuye.
- (1 Tim. ba nyina, ku bicanyi, 10 Kubasambanyi, kubo bihumanya abantu , kubacakara, kubeshya, kubeshya, kandi niba hari ikindi kintu kinyuranye ninyigisho zumvikana;
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Urugero rukurikira rwerekana akamaro ko gusobanukirwa ko gukora ubutinganyi no kwifuza ari icyaha. Niba umuntu atabyumva, ntashobora na rimwe kubona amahoro ku Mana no kubona umutimanama utamucira urubanza. Birabuza kandi ko ashobora gukizwa:
Ndibuka undi muntu, nawe wagishije inama abaganga kenshi. Yaje kuvugana nanjye. Abantu bari bamusengeye cyane, ariko ntiyabona amahoro ku Mana. Abantu bose baravuze bati: “Gusa wemere Imana. Ibyo birahagije. ” Ariko Uwiteka yambwiye icyo kibazo maze ntinyuka kubaza umurwayi ikibazo giteye ubwoba: “Ese uri abaryamana bahuje igitsina?” Yavuze ati: “Wabwirwa n'iki?” Namwishuye nti: “Uhoraho yaranyeretse.” Ati: "Byabaye nkiri muto". “Watuye Uwiteka iki cyaha? Iyo wemeye icyaha cyawe, uzakira ”, naramushubije. “Ariko icyo si icyaha. Ni uburwayi. ” Navuze nti: “Noneho sinshobora kugufasha.” Nasezeye ku murwayi. Nyuma y'ibyumweru bitandatu, yaje aho ndi arambwira ati: “Ubu nzi neza ko ari icyaha.” Nongeye kubabwira nti: “Byemere Uwiteka.” Yishuye ati: “Sinshobora kubikora.” Mu gihe cy'isaha imwe twarwaniye ubugingo bwe, kugeza igihe yatangiriye Uwiteka ibikorwa bye. Kuva uwo munsi yabaye umugabo wishimye. Ntabwo yigeze yongera kujya mu bitaro byo mu mutwe. Ibyishimo byashoboraga kugaragara mu maso ye! Hariho imbaraga mumaraso ya Yesu kristo. Imana itanga Umwuka Wera wuzuye kugirango dushobore gufasha abantu umudendezo. Abantu babaye imbata z'icyaha, kandi ubutumwa butagaragara kuri Yesu ntibushobora kubabohora. (14)
Nyamara, abantu benshi batekereza ko kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina atari icyaha kandi bashobora kukirwanirira mu izina ry'urukundo no kwihanganirana. Ariko nibyiza kubaza ko niba ibice byabanjirije Bibiliya ari ukuri kandi ni ukuri, ibyo ntibishobora guhindura ikibazo ukundi? Ukurikije ibi, amagambo yabantu bateza imbere kandi bashyigikira imibereho yabaryamana bahuje ibitsina bizayobora abandi kure yImana, mubacirwaho iteka. Aba bantu, batitaye ku bugingo bwabantu, bishyizeho nk'abayobozi bakomeye iyo bavuga ko imirongo ibanziriza Bibiliya ari ibinyoma. Ahari ibyo Yesu yavuze kubantu bahura n'ibigeragezo bireba abantu nkabo (Luka 17: 1,2, Reba na Yakobo 3: 1,2) Icy'ingenzi ariko, ni uko nta muntu ugomba kujya ikuzimu kubera kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina cyangwa ikindi cyaha icyo ari cyo cyose. Niba duhindukiriye Imana tukihana, noneho ibintu byose birashobora guhinduka kandi tuzahabwa imbabazi mubuzima bwacu. Ibi bishingiye kubyabaye hashize hafi imyaka 2000 binyuze muri Yesu. Bibiliya itubwira neza ko Imana yamutumye - Yesu Mesiya - kuko Imana yakunze isi na buri wese muri twe:
- (Yohana 3:16) Kuberako Imana yakunze isi cyane, kuburyo yatanze Umwana wayo w'ikinege , kugirango umwizera wese atarimbuka, ahubwo agire ubugingo bw'iteka.
Bibiliya itubwira ko igihe Kristo yazaga kwisi, yakuyeho icyaha cyisi apfa kumusaraba. Kuberako icyaha cyisi cyashyizwe kuri We kigakurwaho, ibyaha byacu nabyo byarakuweho. Ibi bifasha Imana kutubabarira ibyaha byacu, ikanaduha ubuzima bushya hano kwisi, niba dushaka kubyakira:
- (Yohana 1:29) Bukeye Yohana abona Yesu amusanga, ati: Dore Umwana w'intama w'Imana, ukuraho ibyaha by'isi .
- (2 Kor 6: 1,2) Twebwe rero, nk'abakozi hamwe na we, turagusaba kandi ko mutakira ubuntu bw'Imana kubusa . 2 (Kuko yavuze ati: Numvise mu gihe cyemewe, kandi ku munsi w'agakiza nagutabaye: dore igihe kirageze, dore ko ari umunsi w'agakiza.)
KWAKIRA UBUZIMA. Niba umuntu yagiye kure yImana kuva kera, arashobora gukizwa no kugirana isano nayo. Arashobora kandi gutsinda imyifatire ye, kugirango batazayobora igice cyingenzi mubuzima bwe. Ibi bikubiyemo ibintu bikurikira:
Kuza kwa Data wo mu ijuru . Intambwe yambere nigihe duhindukiriye Data wo mwijuru. Bibaho gusa binyuze muri Yesu Kristo, nkuko Yesu ubwe yabivuze:
- (Yohana 14: 6) Yesu aramubwira ati: Ninjye nzira, ukuri, n'ubugingo: nta muntu ujya kwa Data, ariko ni njye .
Rero, iyo wowe ubwawe uhindukirira Imana ukoresheje Yesu Kristo, urashobora kumubwira ko ushaka kubana nawe kandi ko ukeneye agakiza. Luka 15 havuga amateka yumuhungu w'ikirara. Umuhungu yemeye ibyaha bye asubira kwa se. Kubera iyo mpamvu, se yari afite impuhwe nyinshi maze amusanga. Imyifatire ya Data wo mwijuru kuri wewe kandi twese tumuhindukirira ni kimwe:
- (Luka 15: 18-20) Nzahaguruka nsange data , ndamubwira nti Data, nacumuye ku ijuru, kandi imbere yawe, 19 Kandi sinkibereye kwitwa umuhungu wawe: mpindura umwe mu bagaragu bawe bahembwa. 20 Arahaguruka , asanga se. Ariko akiri kure cyane, se aramubona, agira impuhwe , ariruka, amugwa mu ijosi aramusoma.
Sobanukirwa n'urukundo rw'Imana ! Ubukurikira, umva ko Imana igukunda. Yagukunze iteka, nubwo utamuzi. Byanditswe:
- (Rom 5: 6-8) Kuberako mugihe tutari tugifite imbaraga, mugihe gikwiye Kristo yapfiriye abatubaha Imana. 7 Kuberako umuntu w'intungane azabura gupfa, ariko birashoboka ko umuntu mwiza bamwe batinyuka gupfa. 8 Ariko Imana ishima urukundo idukunda, kuko, igihe twari tukiri abanyabyaha, Kristo yadupfiriye .
Ugomba kandi gusobanukirwa ko kimwe kijyanye nubu niba warahindukiriye Imana. Urukundo rw'Imana ntiruterwa nuburyo ubuzima bwawe bwagenze neza cyangwa uko watsinze icyaha, ni urukundo rwigihe cyose. Nibyo ibaruwa Pawulo yandikiye Abanyaroma ibivugaho:
- (Rom. 8:35, 39) Ninde uzadutandukanya n'urukundo rwa Kristo … 39 Ntabwo uburebure, cyangwa ubujyakuzimu, cyangwa ikindi kiremwa icyo ari cyo cyose, bizashobora kudutandukanya n'urukundo rw'Imana , ruri muri Kristo Yesu Umwami wacu.
Izere ! Ikintu cya gatatu cyingenzi nuko wizera imbaraga zImana mubuzima bwawe. Ibi bishingiye ku kuba warashizwe kuri Kristo (Yohana 15: 5). Mugihe ugeragejwe ( kandi rwose bizashoboka! ), Urashobora kureba Kristo ugategereza ko agukorera ibyo bidashoboka. Ntabwo rwose uzaba intungane mu kanya nk'ako guhumbya, ariko urashobora kwiringira ubufasha bwe mubuzima bwawe:
- (Fil 1: 6) Kuba wizeye iki kintu nyine, ko uwatangiye umurimo mwiza muri wowe azagikora kugeza kumunsi wa Yesu Kristo.
Noneho, niba ufite ibishuko cyangwa impengamiro yo kuryamana kw'abahuje igitsina, ibuka ko ushobora kubitsinda nkuko ushobora gutsinda uburakari, kunegura, ubusinzi, nibindi byaha: kububasha bwa Yesu Kristo. Ibi byari bisanzwe cyane mu itorero rya mbere kandi rwose dushobora kubyitega ubu. Ugomba guhindukirira Imana gusa ugategereza ko igitangaza cyayo kibaho mubuzima bwawe:
- . _ 4 Ariko nyuma y'ibyo ineza n'urukundo by'Imana Umukiza wacu ku muntu byagaragaye, 5 Ntabwo ari imirimo yo gukiranuka twakoze, ahubwo kubw'imbabazi zayo yaradukijije, no gukaraba bushya, no kuvugurura Umwuka Wera;
References:
1. Jerry Arterburn: Kun kulissit kaatuvat (How Will I Tell My Mother), p.131 2. Same, p. 73 3. Andrew Comiskey: Täyteen miehuuteen ja koko naiseksi (Pursuing Sexual Wholeness), p. 131 4. Leanne Payne: Särkynyt minäkuva (The Broken Image), p. 46 5. Andrew Comiskey: Täyteen miehuuteen ja koko naiseksi (Pursuing Sexual Wholeness), p. 139,140 6. Leanne Payne: Särkynyt minäkuva (The Broken Image), p. 84, 85 7. Jerry Arterburn: Kun kulissit kaatuvat (How Will I Tell My Mother), p. 39,40 8. Carlos Annacondia: Kuuntele minua Saatana! (Listen to me, satan!), p. 122 9. Leanne Payne: Särkynyt minäkuva (The Broken Image), p.30 10. Roland Werner: Toisenlainen rakkaus (Homosexualität – ein Schicksal?), p.48 11. Same, p.50,51 12. Näky-magazine 4 / 2008, p. 10-12 13. Andrew Comiskey: Täyteen mieheyteen ja koko naiseksi (Pursuing Sexual Wholeness), p. 171,172 14. Michael Harry: Te saatte voiman, p. 75
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